Just Stay

Posted: April 21, 2012 in Blog

 I came across this and thought it was a really nice story, true or not.

Just Stay

A nurse took the tired, anxious serviceman to the bedside. “Your son is here,” she said to the old man. She had to repeat the words several times before the patient’s eyes opened.

Heavily sedated because of the pain of his heart attack, he dimly saw the young uniformed Marine standing outside the oxygen tent. He reached out his hand. The Marine wrapped his toughened fingers around the old man’s limp ones, squeezing a message of love and encouragement.

The nurse brought a chair so that the Marine could sit beside the bed. All through the night the young Marine sat there in the poorly lighted ward, holding the old man’s hand and offering him words of love and strength. Occasionally, the nurse suggested that the Marine move away and rest awhile.

He refused. Whenever the nurse came into the ward, the Marine was oblivious of her and of the night noises of the hospital – the clanking of the oxygen tank, the laughter of the night staff members exchanging greetings, the cries and moans of the other patients. Now and then she heard him say a few gentle words. The dying man said nothing, only held tightly to his son all through the night.

Along towards dawn, the old man died. The Marine released the now lifeless hand he had been holding and went to tell the nurse. While she did what she had to do, he waited. Finally, she returned. She started to offer words of sympathy, but the Marine interrupted her. “Who was that man?” he asked.

The nurse was startled, “He was your father,” she answered. “No, he wasn’t,” the Marine replied. “I never saw him before in my life.” Then why didn’t you say something when I took you to him?” I knew right away there had been a mistake but I also knew he needed his son, and his  son just wasn’t here. When I realized that he was too sick to tell whether or not I was his son, knowing how much he needed me, I stayed.

“ I came here tonight to find a Mr. William Grey. His son was Killed in Iraq today, and I was sent to inform him.  What was this gentleman’s name? The nurse with tears in her eyes, answered, “William Grey………”

The next time someone needs you … just be there.  Stay.




  1. Tom Page says:

    Dan was asked to share his story to the Bountiful Lion. I was impressed by spirit and dedication to his country, so I bought his book from him. I just finished reading it and feel it an honor to have met him and read about his life in the service of his country: A true American Patriot, leader, giving all he could to his team and friends. I would like to hear his wife tell share how she survived raising their family with a husband having a job like that. Well told Dan. I appreciate the special op teams much better now. Tom

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